Why Be A Golf Club Member?

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In a worrying era of sharply declining golf club membership, there are still many reasons why being a golf club member is as rewarding as ever by Alex Clewett

Golf club membership is plummeting in the UK, with England Golf reporting a 20% drop between 2004 and 2013, and the Scottish Golf Union reporting a 17% drop over the same period.

Of course, being a golf club member is expensive with annual fees starting from a few hundred pounds to multiple thousands at the most exclusive clubs. In addition, some clubs will also ask for a joining fee and numerous people to vouch for your good character, and suddenly the whole process becomes very long-winded and doesn’t seem worth the time, effort or money involved.

The interesting viaduct feature at Rugby Golf Club, which cuts through the centre of the course.

The interesting viaduct feature at Rugby Golf Club, which cuts through the centre of the course.

From about the age of 13, I have spent hundreds of fun-filled hours at my golf club, just as many other boys or girls have at theirs. The best times of course were the summer holidays. There were two junior competitions a week and when I got my handicap down to 12, I could play in all the men’s ones too.

I must have spent almost every day for a few summers at the golf club, and it even got to the point where I would have arguments with my parents about going on holiday, as all I wanted to do was play golf. Spoilt brat.

I grew up with the other kids in those summers, making friends and learning how to conduct myself on the golf course and off it, when I would spend time with the adult members and learn some key life skills, such as how to take banter and give it out in equal measure.

I’d even call my club professional a childhood mentor, not just a great friend. I was never one for having lots of lessons, preferring to scramble my way around the golf course to my current (unrealistic) handicap of 5, so I’ve had more life lessons than golf lessons from him, something I am deeply grateful for.

By the time I got down to my current handicap of 5, the men’s scratch team captain even considered me good enough to represent the club in the county league, along with my friends of the same age. Here I really had to cut my teeth against the best players in Warwickshire, but again this was all about the experience, which without being a member of a golf club I would never have had.

Now as an adult member, I can see what being a member of a golf club is all about: a continuous cycle of life development achieved through the mentoring of younger members and teaching the rights and wrongs of life on and off the golf course.

I now look forward to passing on some life knowledge to the kids I meet at my golf club, and also making new friends when I inevitably pack up and move to another club in another part of the country through playing in competitions, having a drink in the clubhouse and even an idle chat on the putting green.

The golf club is a very British institution, and one which although is in decline, I cannot see dying out any time soon. This is due to the quite unique way in which it perfectly combines your sporting and social life to make you look forward to that weekend medal every week even if you know deep down you’re getting .1 back.

This simple joy is open to everyone of all golfing abilities, and I cannot recommend it highly enough.

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