Why Your First Tee Rhythm Fails: The Secret To A Smooth Start Every Round
PGA Professional Katie Dawkins shares her tips on how to calm your nerves and maintain your rhythm on the first tee
A common fault on the first tee is allowing tension to creep into your game. Nerves can kill your rhythm if they’re not controlled. Nerves are adrenalin and we need this to help us perform to our best. However, while we want some, we don’t want it over spilling into shaking hands and loss of control!
If your tension levels are sky high before you set foot on the first tee there may be trouble ahead. Some golfers build up the first tee shot in their minds to be this make or break moment in the round, but it doesn’t need to be.
A poor start doesn’t always mean the round will be a disaster. In fact many golfers have gone on to have their biggest wins after a diabolical start! Here are some tips to set you up for success.
Power Of Song
Imagine those walk-on songs that boxers use to get themselves pumped up as they head into the ring. Well, golf is similar. We need to put ourselves in a good mood.
Humming your favorite tune on the way to the tee is a way to release tension, and given that the acoustics of the XXIO 14 clubs have been tuned for a longer, higher pitch, it’s the perfect match for a sweet note every time you hit the ball.
Humming a song helps golfers to relax before teeing off
Get the right pace of song for your swing. If you’re someone who needs to inject more energy into your swing, then go for something by AC/DC. I love ‘Thunderstruck’ to get that energy dial up. If you need to calm your pace and get everything under control, then go for some jazz or a bit of country music.
And Breathe!
Now you’ve settled your nerves into a happy place song wise, work on your breath. Use breath work to actively lower your heart rate and calm yourself down. This is not a life or death moment, so remind yourself that you can do this.
Find a rectangle shape somewhere near the tee, for example, a bench or your scorecard. Fix your gaze on one of the bottom corners.
Find a rectangle to focus on your breathing for calmness
Breathe in as your eyes follow the short edge, then slowly and calmly breathe out as you follow your gaze down the long side. You’ll be breathing out for longer. This will need to be repeated a few times and you’ll soon start to feel more calm.
Squeeze Gently
The worry of the first shot will cause you to squeeze the club really hard and this in turn will send your rhythm off the charts It will also mean your club lifts further away from the ground, so a topped tee shot is on the cards! So let go a little, soften your hands and relinquish the squeeze.
If you grip the club too tightly, this causes your club to lift off the ground resulting in a poor shot
The grips on the XXIO 14 clubs are lovely and tacky so there’s no need to strangle them. When you soften your hands, you’re more likely to hit the tee under the ball and hear a wonderful crisply struck sound.
Stick To Your Routine
A pre-shot routine will help you rehearse and visualise the shot before it happens. Make a smooth complete practice swing, then stand behind and pick a distant target. Breathe out as you walk into your set-up.
Pick a target and breathe out as you walk into your set-up
Swing back smoothly and complete the swing all the way to the end. A great tip is to pretend it’s another practice swing. Simply click the tee and finish your swing.
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Katie is an Advanced PGA professional with over 20 years of coaching experience. She helps golfers of every age and ability to be the best versions of themselves. In January 2022 she was named as one of Golf Monthly's Top 50 Coaches.
Katie coaches the individual and uses her vast experience in technique, psychology and golf fitness to fix problems in a logical manner that is effective - she makes golf simple. Katie is based in the South of England, on the edge of the New Forest. An experienced club coach, she developed GardenGOLF during lockdown and as well as coaching at Iford Golf Centre, The Caversham- Home of Reading Golf Club and Salisbury & South Wilts Golf Club.
She freelances, operating via pop-up clinics and travelling to clients homes to help them use their space to improve.
She has coached tour pros on both LET tour and the Challenge Tour as well as introduced many a beginner to the game.
Katie has been writing instructional content for magazines for 20 years. Her creative approach to writing is fuelled by her sideline as an artist.
Katie's Current What's In The Bag
Driver: TaylorMade Qi10 9degrees.
Fairway: TaylorMade Qi10 5wood
Hybrid: TaylorMade 4 & 5
Irons: TaylorMade 770 6-AW
Wedges: TaylorMade Tour Grind 4 54 & 58
Putter: TaylorMade Tour X 33"
Favourite Shoes: FootJoy HyperFlex with Tour Flex Pro Softspikes on the course.
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